Purpose and passion.
Balancing money, time, energy and love.
Therapeutic Hypnosis.
Family, relationship and marriage counselling.
Supported separation.
Grief counseling.
Eating Disorders.
Pre-conception, Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond.
0-7 The Next Generation of You.
7-14 Becoming a Teenager.
14-21 Journey to the Self
Amici Mortis – a friend of the dying.
Holding space as you experience the sacred
and powerful final rite of passage.
Belinda-Jane has entered her fourth decade in private practice. She has lived, travelled and studied in five countries culminating in the writing and facilitating of a course for her clients – Elements of Life, a Simply Sacred System.
A foundation prioritising Contribution and Service has been established.
The goal of Belinda-Jane’s unique course is to provide her clients with the skills and tools to navigate and negotiate their lives from a place of connection,
power and control.
What follows is a life of clarity, calm and ascension toward all they are and wish to be.
One learns to stand still, allowing the internal world to reveal
the only healing answer you seek.
The very simple difference between standard clinical psychology and Evolved Psychology is this… The spiritual pathology that sits before me is more relevant than anything that has gone before. The symptoms, stories, diagnosis we learn to embody and climb inside, are not healing. Nor are...
As messy as life appears to present itself, I’ve grown to understand, there is a symmetry woven into its seasons. The only thing one can truly do well is bring yourself to it. There is a relationship there waiting. The most important one in fact....
True beauty is the essence of something – not the thing itself; a beautiful scent, sound, soul. Intuitively, we need to learn to look deeper, feel and notice more, to disregard superficiality and replace it with a more naturally inspired essence. As a very young...
All of life requires an acknowledgement of death. Recently, a beloved son in our community took his life. No, he did not commit suicide, the choice he made in that simply unguarded moment was in no way a sin; condemning him to eternal damnation. Those left...
Many clients will say to me, “Oh, my children are almost grown.” At 14, 16 or 19 they may be a head taller, however, both their heads and hearts are still very, very young. They have little or no relative experience, their brain development is...
This stage is about teaching children to make good choices. I have been asked to begin with the skill set the 7-year-old can have. Sacred Seven – the ending of littleness, your child can manage: To make their bed Fold pyjamas Dress entirely Cook toast,...
This is a sacred subject, fraught with controversy, mine fields, specialists, academics, competition and guilt. That said, I embark on this blog post fully aware I am opening Pandora’s Box. Traditionally, the questions I am asked and the problems I see arising, were answered with...
When new life comes to a man and a woman, its very creation is dependant upon both parts equally. There is an unspoken psychic understanding or belief that these two loved, in order for that life to be. It is not always the case, yet...
I recall an evening, my husband was at a dinner before a golf tournament he played the following day. Our two girls and I were in a motel room in New Zealand. Angelica always hungry to read, found a book stored in the top right...
It has been my experience that over-diagnosis and prescribing may be the single most counter-productive and disempowering paradigm we experience. That is telling you by definition, you are something, or have something, and therefore should expect an associated outcome. As a culture, we have arrived...
Before I begin on any path of transforming therapy with a client I always discuss, with each individual, how this choice will change their lives. And it will change your life – to realise that you have all the knowledge, energy, power and love within...
The transition from wild woman to wise woman happens in moments from the inside; a vague haze, an emotional inability to express clearly, waves where nothing feels easy. There may be wakeful nights, severe profuse sweating, despair or a sense of foreboding. There is no...
From the moment we are born, we are taught to hold on. I believe life is more easily lived, once we learn how to let go. Holding on is entirely against nature. If something is clearly not working for you, give yourself permission to let...
To Nurture and Nourish is the central theme within home, family and partnership. This essential element needs to be considered foremost when looking at a life in balance, or out of balance, which is often where I come in. To nurture and care is not always...
Marriage is not a romantic notion, it is a commitment to a partner for life. Everything else in life we maintain, service or repair without a second thought. Marriage, however, a basis for safety, security, balance and family – we allow to muddle through unattended....
In my career, I have had a unique insight shared by those nannying or minding our children. They have watched as clients walk up the path, heads down, dejected, solemn and sad. They say, 90 minutes later they emerge, like they’re walking on air, evidently...
I spent the last 24hrs dancing between moments of madness and absolute bliss. Angelica and I went winter clothes shopping for her yesterday. After three hours she found me between the racks, her ample bra cup positioned on my head, yamaka fashion, with the strap...
As a counsellor, I have the privilege of holding thousands of secrets. That vault, for me, is a sacred place. Personally, I am, by nature, private and protective. On so many levels, blogging goes against everything I’ve been. So they say… My children have often...
